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Monday, December 24, 2007

How to stay young...an excerpt ( Courtesy: blogger.com )

I found this particularly very interesting because of two reasons, one is I like to stay young and the second that everyone wants to stay young although they might never have really given a thought or effort to stay so. So here are some quick tips to stay young !!! Remember each point is worth reading twice.
  • Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay "them "
  • Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.
  • Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. "An idle mind is the devil's workshop." And the devil's name is Alzheimer's.
  • Enjoy the simple things.
  • Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.
  • The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.
  • Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, pets,keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.
  • Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable,improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.
  • Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.
  • Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity. AND ALWAYS REMEMBER: Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

I purged my soul yet again !!!

I am not a movie buff by any remote possibility but when I do see movies, movies which are really good, I'm so immersed, the profoundness of the film just stays with me quite long. I have started writing on this blog again after such a long time and such procrastination that if there is anything called delayed procrastination then you can see that in me. I know that writing such things about yourselves will have an impact deep enough to make you believe that you are a procrastinator , but hell no I'm not. This was just me before I started typing this on to monitor.

So now, you might all be thinking why it started with me not being a movie buff and leading to something to do with procrastination. Thats the reason I pull myself back to writing what I wanted to in this post.

I have seen this movie called " Taare Zameen Par " produced, directed and cast as well by Aamir Khan just yesterday. The three hours I spent in the theater was such an exhilarating experience that I became a kid once again just like the school boy Ishaan in the movie. And when you come out of the theater you will feel so fresh that you are empty. You feel that life should just be that picture perfect. But life is all about picking those bright colors from amongst all the others. Aamir Khan's movies are just those bright colors picked out of bland set of movies for which it has become a norm to have an awful exaggeration of violence, skin show and teen love. Every time I see an Aamir Khan's movie I come out of the theater with an air of freshness, with all new enthusiasm, an inspiration worth having all your life...Dil Chahta Hai, Lagaan, Rang De Basanti and now Taare Zameen Par.

So how do you carry all this renewed enthu and the freshness for a long time is the question. One thing is to start living in that world but keeping yourselves away from a point of no return where you are so overwhelmed by the filmi style of living that people start believing you are crazy. Another way is to just be apathetic to whatever happens on the screen and live your life. I am leaving this post incomplete coz I do not have any idea of what more to write. I will try to keep adding more.

Wednesday, February 07, 2007

The West Coast - North to South

Wednesday, December 06, 2006

The Fallen Tomato Cart

Recently I had a e-mail in my inbox which caught my attention. It depicted the stark reality out there in the society. It made me think..gave me a jolt literally...how we build a cozy cocoon around ourselves and live hating all the trivial problems which we come across..but what about those who dwell in a real world of problems...that is "The fallen Tomato cart" here..read

The fallen Tomato Cart

I pass through this very intersection every morning with so much ease. Today, the pace is skewed. There is a sense of disarray as motorists try to push past each other through the traffic light. The light here always tests their agility because if you miss the green, you have to wait for another three minutes before it lets you go past again. Those three minutes become eternity for an otherwise time-insensitive nation on the move. Today, there is a sense of chaos here. People are honking, skirting each other and rushing past. I look out of my window to seek the reason. It is not difficult to find because it is lying strewn all over the place.

A tomato seller’s cart has overturned. There are tomatoes everywhere and the rushing motorists are making pulp of it. The man is trying to get his cart back on its four rickety wheels and a few passersby are picking up what they can in an attempt to save him total loss. Though symbolic in the larger scheme of things, it is not a substantive gesture. His business for the day is over.

The way this man’s economics works is very simple. There is a money lender who lends him money for just one day, at an interest rate of Rs 10 per day per Rs 100 lent. With the money, he wakes up at 4 am to go to the wholesale market for vegetables. He returns, pushing his cart a good five miles, and by 7 am when the locality wakes up, he is ready to sell his day’s merchandise. By the end of the morning, some of it remains unsold. This his wife sells by the afternoon and takes home the remainder, which becomes part of his meal. With the day’s proceeds, he returns the interest to the money lender and goes back to the routine the next day. If he does not sell for a day, his chain breaks.

Where does he go from here? He goes back to the money lender, raises capital at an even more penal interest and gets back on his feet. This is not the only time that destiny has upset his tomato cart. This happens to him at least six times every year. Once he returned with a loaded cart of ripe tomatoes and it rained heavily for the next three days. No one came to the market and his stock rotted in front of his own eyes. Another time, instead of the weather, it was a political rally that snowballed into a confrontation between two rival groups and the locality closed down. And he is not alone in this game of extraneous factors that seize not only his business but also his life. He sees this happen to the “gol-gappa” seller, the peanut seller and the “vada pao” seller all the time. When their product does not sell, it just turns soggy. Sometimes they eat some of it. But how much of that stuff can you eat by yourself ? So, they just give away some and there is always that one time when they have to simply throw it away.

Away from the street-vendor selling perishable commodity with little or no life support system, the corporate world is an altogether different place. Here we have some of the most educated people in the country. We don the best garbs. We do not have to push carts; our carts push us. We have our salary, perquisites, bonuses, stock options, gratuities, pensions and our medical insurance and the group accident benefit schemes. Yet, all the while, we worry about our risks and think about our professional insecurity. We wonder, what would happen if the company shifted offices to another city? What would happen if the department closed down? What would happen if you were to take maternity leave and the temporary substitute delivered better work than you did? What would happen if the product line you are dealing with simply failed? In any of those eventualities, the worst that could happen would still be a lot less than having to see your cartful of tomatoes getting pulped under the screeching wheels of absolute strangers who have nothing personal against you.

All too often we exaggerate our risks. We keep justifying our professional concerns till they trap us in their vicious downward spiral. Devoid of education, sophisticated reasoning and any financial safety net, the man with the cart is often able to deal with life much better than many of us. Is it time to look out of the window, into the eyes of that man to ask him, where does he get it from? In his simple stoicism, is probably, our lost resilience. Think over it.

Saturday, November 18, 2006

All the new


Haaa ..finally happy after a successful Kaleidoscope

Jagdish Farewell at Chilli's ..ooops no jagdish

With India Fest participants and kids

India Fest with International Student Advisor...Clar Nunis

Hari's Home

Thursday, September 07, 2006

Vinayaka Chavithi


Saturday, July 15, 2006

Leo's Birthday








Sunday, May 14, 2006

The Nature...I love it




Time Pass Pics


International Nite





ISA Success Celebration

Lots to come....

Its been a long long while since I posted anything over here. Lots of things happened ...lots of pictures..but lots of work too..it was a hectic semester and now its summer time...that means lots of time to upload pictures..ha ha...so here they come.